Tuesday, April 12, 2016

Alchemy and the Dharma

Last night The Lady Alchemist made food for the Kadampa Meditation Center in SF.
Below are the recipes of the food served that evening.
Having the opportunity to nourish last night's meditators has led me to reflect on the importance the Kadampa dharma community has played in my life as well as how grateful I am to be a member of the community. I wanted to share with you my experience. 
Above is a picture of me in 2010 volunteering on the temple grounds at Kadampa in Glenspay, New York. This was when Kadampa buddhism entered my life for the first time. This experience back in 2010 contributes largely to The Lady Alchemist's core principals and is a big part of my life today. 
Back in 2010 I was in college enrolled in a Holistic studies and Integral Nutrition program. One day my professor came back from a retreat and showed me pictures of the temple grounds she had visited. I was like"This place is only a few hours from New Jersey.. get out!!" It looked like a magical palace, a paradice. She told me about her experience in a manor of peace and joy that made me feel both happy for her AND want some of what she's got!
On a college budget, I couldn't exactly afford the trip but with further digging on their website I saw that they offer room and board and classes in exchange for Dharma Work..whatever that was. I took my chances and sent in an application. I told them I was good with a knife and love to cook vegetarian. (the buddhists really dig their cruelty free veg meals) 
They accepted my application and off I went to live on the temple grounds. 
Upon arrival, my eagerness to combine my passions of cooking and self discovery were met with some disappointment. 
Hours of meditation, long periods of silence in the morning, people telling me that I was breaking rules, periods of fasting; this was not the paradise my professor had made it out to be. On top of it I wasn't even in the kitchen very much. I was doing task like washing and changing sheets, raking endless leaves and cleaning the bathrooms. grrrr
The first few days were hell!
Despite the achy hips (so much sitting on the floor) and the routine silent treatment, I continued to stick it out. Maybe it was because of my masochistic tendencies or maybe because my intuition felt that there was something more to it. 
All the people around me were happy and they were doing the same Dharma work as me,  the same meditation practices and in the same location. I thought.. "What's up,  why wasn't I 'drinking the coolaide" 
By the end of the first week the resident monk Gen Sempten's teachings began to steep in a little more. I sat with him at lunch and told him of my discontentment with the practices. He in turn talked about the principles of the teachings of the human mind grasping to fear. He asked what my mind was perceiving about the experience that was holding onto fear. 


We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts, we make our world.
-Buddha 

Gen Sampten was right, my mind was scared. It was scared to be in a different state of mentality, to be with myself. I was scared and uncomfortable to be without mindless chit chat and to be engaged in repedtative tasks, to follow a schedule that was out of my control. Without TV, alcohol, Facebook and texting to distract me there weren't many places to hide. 
With no place to hide, I resorted to fear, fear brought me so far into my own self doubt and judgement it removed me from the present moment. The main thing I feared was the lack of control I had over the whole thing. My daily distractions gave me the illusion that I was in control. 
Gen Samten told me that control is a part of our suffering deluded minds, a sense of control is not truth. He said to me that only if one works with one's whole body, heart, and mind, has one truly living in truth.

I held in mind what he had said to me in the following meditation session and It dawned on me how I could start to apply this to my Dharma work

 Through the dharma work I learned how to bring the spirit of wakefulness to the activities of my life. I would make the beds and visualize their inhabitants having a restful sleep. I would chop the vegetables imagining their nutrients filling the bellies of their consumer and thinking of the earth that created them. I would dust the corners of the window sills imagining myself removing the dusty delusional thoughts I have accumulated over time. During the process of everyday chores I was beginning to receive great teachings and live in my whole body, heart and mind. 
In the silence I learned how to listen. I learned how to be with thoughts and desires rather then bring them into diologue and engagement with others as they came up. I learned to let them pass and dissolve back into the ocean of my thoughts. 

I know this may sounds a little granola, but it's a practice, and all practice drills are a little funny and different from the actual game play;keep that in mind. I remember in tennis some of the things my coach made me do felt pretty silly, but in the long run, it sharpened my game. 

When leaving the grounds, I had a new perspective on doing things. I had evoked intention over distraction. 
I'm not going to lie, its not like I left there enlightened. I just know that when we bring intention into life and stop trying to control it, it gets better. To this day I am as guilty as the next in mindless scrolling on Facebook but because I have the dharma community, It's times like cooking last night that remind me that there is refuge, a better way to live in less distraction and in more contact with truth. 


The Lovely Maria enjoying Green Tara Rainbow Kale Salad!

“Your body is precious. It is our vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care.” ~Buddha


The Recipes 

Buddha’s Hand Cauliflower Quinoa Salad


Ingredients:
3 cups cooked quinoa
1 15-ounce can chickpeas, drained and rinsed

1 cup of yellow cauliflower cut in small florets
1 cup of orange cauliflower cut into small florets 
1 cup of orange cauliflower cut in small florets
2 cloves of garlic minced
3 oz of fresh rosemary chopped
1  cup of olive oil 
1/2 cup of lemon juice

2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar
1/2 cup of cara cara orange juice (can substitute naval orange)
1 tablespoons of shaved buddha's hand (can substitute lemon peel or Meyer lemon peel)
1  teaspoon sea salt

1 teaspoon of pepper
1 teaspoon of salt

Directions: 
1. Toss cauliflower florets in salt, peper, garlic, rosemary, olive oil and lemon juice. Place in baken pan and rast at 350f for 20 min. 
2. Cook quinoa and let cool slightly
3. Drain and rince chick pea
4. Marry the roasted cauliflower with the chickpea and quinoa, be sure to pour in juices from the baking pan. 
5. Toss mixture with fresh Cara Cara juice and buddha's hand. Add salt and pepper to taste. 




Green Tara Rainbow Kale Salad

 Ingredients:
6 cup lightly packed raw kale, stems removed
1/4 cup pumpkin seeds
2 cups carrots shredded
1 cup thinly sliced red cabbage
2 cups of broccoli florets

    Dressing: 
    1/2 cup of tahini
    1 cup  chopped parsley loosely packed 
    1/4 cup olive oil 
    1/2 cup of lemon juice
    2 cloves of garlic 
    3 dates pitted 
    1 teaspoon of salt
    Combine in a blender (I like the bullet) Blend until smooth.




Dharma Jewel Chia Pudding




Ingredients:
2 cups vanilla almond milk(I made a raw sprouted almond milk: here's how you can too!)
1/2 cup chia seeds
1/4 cup un-sweetened shredded coconut
1 cup sliced strawberries6 dates chopped fine/ or if you have a blender puree with 1/4 cup of almond milk and marry into batter
Sea salt to taste
Directions:
In a medium bowl, stir together almond milk and chia seeds. Add coconut flakes and strawberries and stir well until combined. Cover with plastic wrap and chill in refrigerator for at least 2 hours. Before serving, stir pudding again. Divide between bowls and top each with a 1 teaspoon of sugar if desired.



Gratitude To the Dharma Community 

New visitors to the temple enjoying the food and the dharma community!

Six years have past and I am on the other side of the country and I still have the support of the community and hold it dear to my heart. 

I am so greatful for the people who showed up last night.  Coming together through food and having the opportunity to nourishing others, nourishes me. Cooking for the temple provided me with a reminder of what I had forgotten. Truth is in community and connecting without fear or doubt. 
Alchemical change happens in our willingness to see gold potential in all things inside and out. It's a messy process, get your hands dirty! Make contact with your truth xo 

Pema Chodron




Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Classy & Conscious Date Night on A Budget!


Four Conscious Courses under $40



On Thursday night and I found myself strapped for date night ideas. I wanted to do something awesome.. on a time budget and a money budget I felt this was out of reach.  
 Ahh maybe just the typical drinks and dinner thing... bleh bleh.  I instead challenged myself to step out of the mundane and ordinary and into the extraordinary. 
I've been practicing no letting my old beliefs..my shoulds limit me.
Part of this transformational journey is bringing intention to all I do from start to finish. I want to walk you through this conscious evening I shared with my friend. 
At first I felt like there wasn't going to be enough time and it was going to be too pricey to do what I really want. 
The shoulds started to set in... I should just do the normal dinner drinks thing, I should maybe cancel, I should just forget about it. I noticed I stated "shoulding" myself. 

“Should is how other people want us to live our lives… Choosing Must is the greatest thing we can do with our lives.” -Elle Luna

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* When you start "shoulding" yourself check in with what is interFEARing- where are you letting fear-in. Is this fear real or just a delusion.  If you start "shoulding" yourself change your shoulds to what you must do and move forward without interFEARance!





 I pushed through the the shoulds and and put aside my fears and let intention rule the evening. I got out of my head and onto my bike! I enjoyed a nice pedal to the grocery to mark the beginning of the adventure. 
I unleashed my creative practice and tapped into what I'm good at. Flow just started to carry me. I had no idea what I was going to make, all I knew was that it was going to be under $40, 4 courses, relatively easy, and..both beautiful and delicious! I need a miracle! 


“Everything we do is infused with the energy with which we do it. If we're frantic, life will be frantic. If we're peaceful, life will be peaceful. And so our goal in any situation becomes inner peace.” ― Marianne Williamson


 I made a lap around the grocery and the menu came to me. I picked up various ingredients that were looking beautiful and just asking to be loved!
 When I got to the cashier I had a great time with her playing the "are we going to make it under $40" game. We were giggling with excitement as each item brought us closer and closer. We celebrated our success together as I came in at $41.34 (good enough considering my personal bottle of fancy PH balanced water I purchased; gotta hydrate). It was nice sharing smiles and victory. 




*I can be a master isolator especially when i'm in a funk, it is amazing how a shared human connection can transform the day . I am starting to realize how much my phone serves as a barrier to human connection, i have made the conscious intention recently to drop the internet connection and up my human connection!


The Evening begins...


 I returned home and my friend arrived. He had never been to the area and was also new to the country. I felt I should show him around but my impatience was setting in. I wanted to forget the walk and get the meal started. Then I thought for what? We had the whole evening and I was becoming overly focused on the outcome rather than enjoying the process. We ended up going for a walk and enjoying a great conversation and stroll. When we got back we got prepping! The great conversations continued as we came together through food, sharing memories, exchange of cultural narratives around food, laughs and great music(I was introduced to Musica de Portuguesa and he learned of The Grateful Dead for the first time ever(but the one song I played him felt like a lifetime).

The evening was a success. Letting go of doubts and fears allowed for creativity to be unleashed and resulted in an evening I will never forget. 
Here are the recipes so you too can experience a conscious evening of connection


*Check yourself; when you notice the outcome being the main objective check in. Ask your body and mind, How can I be more fully in this moment? . I like the use of Affirmation here: My affirmation is "I am safe in this moment and all will work out. I trust in the presence!" I am diggin' on Mama Louise Hay and her work with affirmations: check her out




Learn, Create Grow: Here is what was made and how you can do it too!! 

What's in the Bike Basket: 
1/4 cup of cold pressed olive oil ( I got lemon infused but regular will do) 
2 lemons 
2 limes 
4 spanish tomatos 
1 orange 
2 peaches 
5lbs watermelon 
1/4 lb of pumpkin seeds 
1 cup of almonds 
1 young thai coconut 
1 bunch of spinach on stem 
1 bunch cilantro 
2 sirrano peppers 
1 yellow zucchini
1 green zucchini
1bulb of garlic 
1 package of colorful sprouts 
1 red onion 
1 package of Pealed brand assorted dried fruit (soak as soon as you get home)
1 bunch of rosemary 
1 bunch of fresh basil 
1 bottle apple cider vinegar 
1 bottle tamari or namashoy 


1st Course
 

Watermelon Consume with avocado and Pickled onion 

3 lbs of watermelon 
1/2 red onion
1/2 avocado 
1 red onion 
fresh Basil leaf for garnish 
2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar
2 apricots soaked 
sea salt 1 teaspoon 
Pepper to taste 

1.In a blender place 6 cups of watermelon cubed and sea salt to taste and liquify and strain
2. use a madolin or hand slice red onion as thin as possible, place in bowl. Combine 1 teaspoon of salt, 2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar and 1/4 cup of water in a blender. Combine contents and toss in a bowl set aside until 
3. With a melon baller or a spoon ball half an avocado 
4. In a bowl pour in 1 cup of watermelon broth, sink balled avocado and 3 tablespoons of pickled onion, crack pepper and top with basil leaf 


2nd Course 

Summer Squash Carpaccio 

1 green zucchini
1 yellow summer squash 
4 tablespoons of tamari or namashoy 
1/4 cup of olive oil
1 sprig of rosemary 
3 cloves of garlic 
1/2 lemon 
6 fresh basil leaves 
3 tablespoons of capers(optional)
radish sprouts for garnish

1. with a mandolin thinly slice the squash
2. In a bowl combine lemon, minced garlic, tamari, and olive oli. Whisk contents together.
3. Toss zucchini in mixture and massage.
4. Drain liquid from bowl and set aside
5. Plate zucchini strips
6. Get Creative; Garnish with basil, rosemary, sprouts and capers
7. Drizzle remaining liquid lightly to finish






3rd Course 

Spinach Basil Capris 

2 roma tomatos 
fresh basil 
15-20 spinach leafs 
4 tablespoons of coconut oil 
1/2 cup of pumpkin seeds 
3 dates 
2 cloves of garlic 
1/2 teaspoon of seasalt 
1 lemon juiced 

1. Slice tomatoes into cracker-like slices about 1-2 cm thick
2. Combine spinach, coconut oil, pumpkin seeds, lemon juice, dates, garlic and seasalt in the blender and liquify. 
3. Place 2 tablespoons of mixture on top of each tomato slice 
4. Garnish with slivers of basil and cracked pepper 

4th Course
 

Young Thai Coconut Civiche 

1 young thai coconut 
1 tomato deseeded 
2 serrano peppers deseeded 
1/4 cup of cilantro chopped 
1/4 cup of pumpkin seeds 
1/2 cup of 1/2 a juiced orange 
1/2 orange pealed and cubed into 1 cm cubes (about) 
1 lime juices 
3 tablespoons of purple onion 
1 teaspoon of salt

1. Open coconut with the larges knife you have in the house and hack away . Great way to practice caution and get over your fears and get out some stress! Here is how: This chick will show you, or just ask the produce guy at the store and drink the coconut water as you shop! 
2. Drain (drink) coconut water and scoop out the meat. Chop the meat into 1-2 cm cubes 
3. In a bowl combine diced tomato, diced serrano, chopped cilantro, chopped purple onion, pumpkin seeds, cubed orange. Pix together 
4. juice 1 lime and 1/2 an orange directly into the mixture add sea salt and mix together with your hands or a spoon
5. For plating I cut a sliver off the round side of the orange so it sits flat on the plate, removed fruit part and filled with ceviche. 

Dessert 

RosemaryVanilla Almond Peach Halves

1 peach
1/2 cup of almonds
6 pieces of the dried fruit soaked
1/4 cup of the soak water
1 tsp of vanilla
1 tablespoon of fresh rosemary

1. Half the peach and remove the pit.
2. In a blender or food processor ( I love using my nutrabullet) combine almonds, dried fruit, soak water, vanilla and fresh rosemary. Pulse until contents it is an even consistency.
3. Stuff contents into each half, using an Ice-cream scoop is Ideal
3. Garnish with a sprig of rosemary.  




Friday, June 12, 2015

Welcome To Lady Alchemy!

Hey Blog World I'm The Lady Alchemist and welcome to my Blog! 
Let me start by telling you why Im a Lady Alchemist, and what makes this blog space a place for learning and transformation... 

How The Lady Alchemist was born: It's been many years in the making but it really dawned on me a few weeks ago when I was doing this ... (see picture of crazy girl below) 
On this glorious day I decided to get the Alchemical symbol for Gold tattooed on my arm. I have a few other tattoos but this one is in a place where I see it and think about it everyday, therefore It has to hold great meaning for me. It sure does!! 

That brings me to Alchemy and why this blog is in existence.
 Alchemy is a process of transformation. The Wikipedia defines it as a process to transmute base metals into the noble metals (gold or silver); and development of an elixir of life
IN ENGLISH(and a little Lady Alchemist interpretation): When I look at that tattoo it reminds me that all the bullSHIT(base metal) in my life isn't going away, but is up to me to be transformed(gold or silver).
 There is really something to this alchemy thing, just as across culture and history all corners of the earth have accounts of scripture or a god, the same is true of alchemy. There are accounts everywhere from the Islamic and European world to ancient India and Asia! Its kinda a big deal.  
The masculine is the explicit and for the past centuries alchemy has focused on the transformation of elements outside of self as they appear in the world. As the Lady Alchemist i'll be using my feminine wisdom (and knowledge i've obtained from a few degrees collected over the years) to place focuses on the implicit. We will focus on the internal, the emotions and internal body's alchemical transformation.  
 Join the Lady Alchemist to embark on the process to uncovering your personal Elixir of Life. My objective is to inspire my readers to take life's bullshit and transform it into gold!!
That's cool and all but how in the heyyll do I intend to bring you on this journey? And how do I do it without the hippy/new age BS? 
I just want to be real and authentic with my readers. I like to believe that the world we see around us is our mirror. I will share that mirror with you and how I brought intention  transformed my experiences. A learn, reflect and grow process. 
A big part of internal alchemy is what were putting into our body and the way in which we are doing it. My background is in nutrition. There are plenty of ways to nourish yourself in a conscious way food, activity, work,play and the people in our lives. Together we will explore the relationship to all these things and how to work with the way we currently relate to these factors and how to transform them into the highest alchemy!
Check back for: 
-Recipes
-tips to exercise more connection to self 
-ways to practice nourishment 
-Reflections of the shit life presents and my journey of working to transform it 
-video tutorials 
-Vlogs


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